When You Feel Completely Alone: Finding Strength and Support


A person feels abandoned by their family because of a misunderstood mental illness. They’ve faced years of slander, mental abuse, and isolation, leading to a restraining order against one family member. Their children have been taken from them and turned against them, leaving them penniless, jobless, and on the verge of homelessness. Feeling emotionally battered and unsupported, they express a deep desire for connection, love, and understanding but are overwhelmed by hopelessness..

 First, let me say how incredibly strong you are for reaching out and expressing your feelings. You’ve been through so much pain, and it’s no wonder you’re feeling overwhelmed and at the edge. But please know: you don’t have to face this alone, and there are ways to begin healing, even in the darkest times.

1. Your Feelings Are Valid
It’s okay to feel broken, angry, and exhausted. You’ve been through an unimaginable amount of hurt, and no one can take away the validity of your pain. But even though it feels like the world is against you right now, there are people and resources that want to help you move forward.

2. Connect with Crisis Resources Immediately
You’ve reached a critical point, and it’s vital to get immediate support. If you feel ready to give up, please reach out to one of these resources:

  • National Suicide Prevention Lifeline (US): Dial 988 – Available 24/7 to provide support.
  • Crisis Text Line: Text HOME to 741741 – Speak with someone who will listen and help.

You are worth the time and care they can provide, so don’t hesitate to call or text.

3. Seek Emotional Support
While family may not be supportive right now, there are communities and people who can be.

  • Support Groups: Look for groups online or locally that connect people dealing with similar challenges, such as mental health struggles or family estrangement.
  • The Bridge: A supportive online community where you can find others who understand your pain and want to help you heal. (Link to be provided at publication.)

4. Begin Rebuilding, One Step at a Time
You’ve lost so much, and that’s heartbreaking. But with time, you can rebuild relationships and stability in your life.

  • Focus on Shelter: Reach out to local shelters or housing services. Organizations like the Salvation Army or local nonprofits can help connect you to resources.
  • Explore Employment Options: If you’re able, consider reaching out to vocational rehabilitation services to find work that aligns with your strengths.
  • Reconnect with Your Kids: It may feel impossible now, but showing stability and persistence over time can open doors to rebuilding relationships with them.

5. Take Care of Your Mental Health
Coping with mental illness is incredibly difficult, especially without support. If you’re not already connected to mental health services, here’s how to start:

  • Free or Low-Cost Counseling: Many community health centers offer sliding scale therapy or free support groups.
  • Online Therapy Platforms: Some services like BetterHelp or Talkspace offer reduced fees based on income.

Resources
When Things Fall Apart: Heart Advice for Difficult Times by Pema Chödrön

The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma by Bessel van der Kolk

Portable Journal – A simple tool for processing emotions through writing.

NAMI.org – Mental health resources and support groups near you.

The Bridge – A supportive online community for connection and encouragement.

You’ve fought so hard already, and even though it feels impossible, you’ve shown resilience by reaching out. That strength is still in you, and there are people and organizations ready to help you carry the weight. Keep going. You’re worth it.

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